We know meeting new people is exciting but The safety of our users is very important to us. There are steps that everyone can follow to ensure their safety while using Cheshmak.
Please take a few minutes to read these tips.
Online Safety
Keep your personal information
You are in control of your Cheshmak experience at all times - remain anonymous until you feel ready. Be careful about sharing personal information, such as your full name, phone number, email and address. Protect your identity until you are comfortable enough with someone to share it. Also, leave any personal contact information out of your Cheshmak profile.
Note: Cheshmak will never send you an email asking for your username and password information. Any such communication should be reported immediately.
Spam/Scammers
There are red flags to watch out for that may indicate you're dealing with a scammer. Be aware of anyone who:
Report suspicious users
Please report anyone who violates our terms of use. Examples of terms of use violations include:
Meeting In Person
First meetings are exciting, but always take precautions and follow these guidelines to help you stay safe:
1. Get to know the other person before meeting them offline.
Get to know someone through chat before disclosing personal information or meeting in person. We don't conduct criminal background checks on our users, so it's up to you to do your own research and remain cautious.
2. Always meet in public
Meet for the first time in a populated, public place - never in a private or remote location, and never at your home or apartment.
3. Tell a friend Inform a friend or family member of your plans.
Tell them who you are meeting, where you are going and when you will return. Bring your phone with you.
4. Drive yourself to and from the first meeting.
Be in control of your own ride - even if you take a taxi. Securing your own ride is important. Even if the person you're meeting volunteers to pick you up, do not get into a vehicle with someone you don't know and trust, especially if it's the first meeting.
Know Your Limits
Be aware of the effects of drugs or alcohol on you specifically they can impair your judgment and your alertness. If your date tries to pressure you to use drugs or drink more than you're comfortable with, hold your ground and end the date.
- Don't Leave Drinks or Personal Items Unattended
Know where your drink comes from and know where it is at all times only accept drinks poured or served directly from the bartender or server. Many substances that are slipped into drinks to facilitate sexual assault are odourless, colourless, and tasteless. Also, keep your phone, purse, wallet, and anything containing personal information on you at all times.
- If You Feel Uncomfortable, Leave
It's okay to end the date early if you're feeling uncomfortable. In fact, it's encouraged. And if your instincts are telling you something is off or you feel unsafe, ask the bartender or server for help.
Remember: even if you follow these tips, no method of risk reduction is perfect. If you have a negative experience, please know that it is not your fault and help is available.
If you feel you are in immediate danger or need emergency assistance, call 999 in the UK and 911 U.S. or Canada or your local law enforcement agency.
Following these guideline will help you and Cheshmak keep safe and enjoyable.